What makes sex hot for you?

Learn what your body needs for sex to feel truly satisfying and erotically hot.

What turns you on isn’t just a bunch of random things.

It’s patterned, layered, and deeply personal. Your eroticism has a flavour, a rhythm, and a familiar pattern.


What is your erotic persona?

Sex is hottest when I feel emotionally safe, seen, and unhurried.

❋ Safety Seeker

❋ The Emotional Alchemist

Sex is hottest when emotions are moving and I feel deeply connected.

Sex is hottest when there’s tension, risk, and a little “we shouldn’t be doing this.”

❋ The Edge-Lover

Sex is hottest when there’s polarity, direction, and energetic leadership.

❋ The Power Play

Hi, I’m Mel.

Certified Holistic Sex Coach and Somatic Therapist.

When I explored my Erotic Blueprint a.k.a the qualities that make sex hot and satisfying for me, a whole new world opened up, like WHOLE new world.

It gave me direction, understanding and reason as to WHY some things work for me and some things don’t.

I brought this work into my clients’ sessions and witnessed so many women having huge realisations.

Most sex advice treats women like we’re all wired the same…as if one technique, one position, one way of initiating sex should work for all of us.

And when it doesn’t? Women feel even MORE broken.

That’s why I built this quiz…to help you see your patterns, your erotic rhythms and what works for YOU.

I hope this quiz opens something beautiful for you.

Mel xx